Today, I want to share a personal experience that completely transformed my perspective. This lesson has come up many times in the Focus 2025 readings I've channeled, and I’m convinced it’s something we all need to pay attention to this year: moving beyond fear to uncover solutions and take action.
A Story of Fear… and a Solution
A few weeks ago, I had a powerful revelation: the solutions to my problems had always been there, but fear had been clouding my ability to see them. Everything shifted the moment I decided to change my perspective and look at things from a different angle.
One powerful example? We had been facing recurring issues with the basement of our house, and for the third time, everything needed to be redone. Instead of letting stress overwhelm me and falling into a victim mentality, I decided to reorganize my approach. Rather than attempting to renovate everything at once, I decided to tackle one room every two months. Plus, I realized that I could tap into underutilized investments to fund these projects. This simple shift—from feeling like a helpless victim to embracing a more empowered and creative approach—allowed me to see a solution where I had previously felt stuck.
Another example came from my husband, a senior marketing director. He was burdened by a toxic client and feared letting them go, convinced that he would lose significant income. I asked him a simple question: “How much do you actually make per month with this client after paying your freelancers?” The answer was clear: just a few hundred dollars. That amount was similar to what I had planned to invest in hiring a part-time marketing assistant. For months, I had been fixated on finding a single person to handle everything. But in that moment, I realized that the solution wasn’t to have one person do it all, but rather to build a team of freelancers, each an expert in their field. This shift in perspective allowed me to create a more flexible and efficient model for my business. And guess what? My husband replaced his toxic client with a much nicer one... me! 😄
These moments taught me something important: solutions are often right in front of us. But to see them, we have to step outside of our comfort zones. Fear is an illusion that prevents the Universe from revealing the answers that are already waiting for us.
How Your Spirit Guides Can Help
Your spirit guides are always there, ready to support you. They're just waiting for you to listen and be open to the messages they send, even if those messages are subtle. All you need to do is pay attention to the small synchronicities and sudden intuitive nudges you experience every day.
So, how can you move beyond fear and better connect with your spirit guides? Here are some simple, effective tools that I use daily to receive their guidance:
1.Clarify Your Intentions
When you feel lost or stuck, ask yourself: “What is my intention here?” Be specific. Instead of saying, “Help me find peace,” try asking, “Help me discover the direction for my project.”
2.Meditation: Silence, Listening, and Openness
One of my favorite practices is to sit in a quiet place, close my eyes, and take a few deep breaths. I visualize myself surrounded by soft, protective light, creating a safe space. Then, I ask my guides to show me signs or solutions to what I’m currently experiencing.
3.Let Go and Trust
This one is probably the hardest part. We all want to control everything, but letting go is essential to receiving. The Universe has perfect timing, even if it doesn’t match what you envision. When you let go, that's when the magic begins to unfold.
4.Be Attentive to Synchronicities and Signs
Your guides love to send messages through synchronicities. You might hear a song that speaks directly to your situation, meet someone who offers crucial advice, or repeatedly see a specific number. These are the Universe’s subtle nudges telling you, “You’re on the right path.”
5.Use Gratitude to Strengthen Your Connection
Gratitude opens the door to even more guidance. Each night, take a moment to thank the Universe for the small (or big) things you experienced that day. This creates a flow of positive energy that deepens your connection with your guides.
My Promise to You
The more you move beyond fear, the more you will see the solutions. Fear may be an obstacle, but it’s also a sign that you’re on the verge of a significant breakthrough. Imagine your guides are right behind that door, ready to help you discover new perspectives and solutions. Sometimes, it just takes one small step for everything to unlock.
Are you ready to move beyond fear and welcome the solutions? Your guides are here for you; you just need to trust them and open your heart to their messages.
2 Questions for You
🤔 What guidance from your guides are you overlooking?
🤔 What recurring messages are you receiving?
Their repetition is a clear sign that there's an important lesson to learn.
Take a moment to reflect, and allow the Universe to show you the way.
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Meli Guidance is a certified advanced Akashic records practitioner, a past-life psychic and a channelling coach. She is also trained in oracle cards and tarot readings. Her specialty is helping people grow by reconnecting them with their soul’s purpose and life missions. She believes that by remembering our past lives and seeing what our life plan is for our current incarnation, we can achieve our future self’s highest potential. In addition to channelling spirit guides for people from all over the world in English and French, she offers online courses and coaching sessions to anyone who wishes to develop their ability to communicate with the invisible world.
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